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The autobiography of Margaret Tucker M.B.E. 'A simple tale of humour and sadness, adventure and legend.'

At the age of 13 Margaret Tucker - Lilardia - left school. Left school? Was snatched from school, by the police! Taken forcibly from her part-Aboriginal parents to be trained as a domestic servant.

Lilardia was born in 1904 on an Aboriginal settlement on the New South Wales-Victoria border. Her memories of her early years are the happiest part of her story. There was no government assistance then, but there was freedom to enjoy a carefree childhood: swimming and fishing in the rivers and lakes, going walkabout with her old uncle and aunt in their buggy, listening to the legends and learning the lore of the tribal elders, being taught by the kindly missionaries.

All of this came to an abrupt end when Lilardia was sent to the Cootamundra Domestic Training Home for Aboriginal Girls. The horror of the training, the cruelty of her first employer in Sydney, the loneliness, homesickness and heartache she felt are related without sentimentality, malice or self-pity.

Throughout a life span from Mission to M.B.E, Lilardia's religious beliefs sustained her in her times of trouble: poverty, racism, a broken marriage, the sometimes hopless task of helping her own people. She is a true Christian and a true Australian, not only in her race, but in her heartfelt love and concern for her country and her hpe that one day all she has worked for will come to pass: that all Australians, black and white, will live together in harmony.

This is a simple tale of humour and sadness, adventure and legend. It is, incidentally, of great historical importance. But it will appeal as the story of a brave, dedicated woman and her struggle through a life of hardship towards the achievement of recognition for herself and her people.

Margaret Tucker's story features in the TV mini-series 'Women in the Sun' and the documentary 'Lousy Little Sixpence' screened by ABC TV.

1st edition hardback, Murray Child, edited by Lesley Zuber, 1977
2nd impression 1978
Paperback edition 1983 by Grosvenor Books
Hardback edition 1983 by Grosvenor Books
2nd impression paperback 1984
3rd impression paperback 1984
2nd impression hardback 19844th impression paperback 1986



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